4 | Heavy

“Heavy” by Linkin Park (featuring Kiiara) is playing over and over in my mind right now, particularly because of the news of Chester Bennington’s death by suicide.  I’ve heard this song many times in the car since its release in February, but since it was on the radio, I never paid any real attention to who the artists were or what they were singing about.  Even then, I sang along, thinking it was a great-sounding pop tune with relatable lyrics.  Now, I’m reflecting on those words that I unthinkingly memorized each time I heard the song, and they hit home.

I don’t like my mind right now
Stacking up problems that are so unnecessary
Wish that I could slow things down
I wanna let go but there’s comfort in the panic
And I drive myself crazy
Thinking everything’s about me
Yeah, I drive myself crazy
‘Cause I can’t escape the gravity

I’m holding on
Why is everything so heavy?
Holding on
So much more than I can carry
I keep dragging around what’s bringing me down
If I just let go, I’d be set free
Holding on
Why is everything so heavy?

You say that I’m paranoid
But I’m pretty sure the world is out to get me
It’s not like I make the choice
To let my mind stay so fucking messy
I know I’m not the center of the universe
But you keep spinning ’round me just the same
I know I’m not the center of the universe
But you keep spinning ’round me just the same

I’m holding on
Why is everything so heavy?
Holding on
So much more than I can carry
I keep dragging around what’s bringing me down
If I just let go, I’d be set free
Holding on
Why is everything so heavy?

I know I’m not the center of the universe
But you keep spinning ’round me just the same
I know I’m not the center of the universe
But you keep spinning ’round me just the same
And I drive myself crazy
Thinking everything’s about me

Holding on
Why is everything so heavy?
Holding on
So much more than I can carry
I keep dragging around what’s bringing me down
If I just let go, I’d be set free
Holding on
Why is everything so heavy?
Why is everything so heavy?
Why is everything so heavy?

Chester Bennington, may you rest in everlasting peace.  You were so willing and open to share your story with the world, even on the darkest of days.  You were struggling; it’s easy to see.  But you created beauty in the face of fear and despair—through your family, your friends, and your art.  Thank you for being you, unapologetically authentic.  Your music and legacy live on.